“You are here to make a difference, to either improve the world or worsen it. And whether or not you consciously choose to, you will accomplish one or the other.” – Richelle E. Goodrich
My mom is staying with me for a few weeks and we made arrangements for her to spend a day with her sister, my aunt, who lives nearby. The morning of our planned visit, mom got dressed and as we sat down to eat breakfast, I couldn’t help but notice the many assorted pieces that she was wearing. She had on a zebra-patterned jacket, over a brown polka dot dress and a pair of multi-colored striped socks with black shoes. I commented on the ensemble and wanted to help her change into something more coordinated, but an inner voice made me stop and instead, focus on gratitude. Grateful that at 82 years of age, she’s not seriously debilitated and requires no help in meeting her day-to-day needs. And grateful that she has all her faculties and is as sharp as ever. In my line of work, I meet so many people who are less fortunate. For that I am grateful.
We all have the ability to become more aware of how we affect those around us.
In 60 Second Leadership by Mike Greene, I was introduced to the concept of “people math.” I’m sure you’ll agree that on a daily basis, we cross path with people who are either Adders, Subtractors, Dividers or Multipliers.
- Adders are people who add value, enhance relationships and improve team performance. People who add value also serve others. They work with others, not through them.
- Subtractors only see the negative and are quick to point out what’s wrong with the situation or what’s wrong with you. Usually being negative is not their intent, but it happens by default.
- Dividers are similar to subtractors but they are intentional and self-serving. They end up poisoning families, teams, and cultures.
- Multipliers are people who grow relationships and teach others how to do the same. Their positive influence results in change and growth even when they are not around.
So…….. who do you think you are?
Almost everyone wants to be the best version of themselves. But no one improves by accident; personal growth doesn’t just happen on its own. Improving yourself and becoming a better version of who you are, start with self-awareness; being aware of who you are now, then doing the work required to improve yourself. Self-improvement takes time, energy, dedication, and restraint…… many reasons why we sometimes avoid taking on that challenge. But the benefits are worth it. And, as in any meaningful endeavor, reaping long-term rewards involves doing things that might not be pleasant in the short-term.
“Personal growth is similar to driving on an unfamiliar road at night. Ideally, you’d like to be able to see your whole route before you begin. But you see it progressively. As you move forward, a little more of the road is revealed to you. If you want to see more of the way, just keep moving.” – John Maxwell
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To Your Success,
Althea
Althea A. McLeish Wilson, RN, MSN
Promoting inner health & outer beauty!
Helping you thrive, not just survive!!
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